Grandson
When we were asked to write a letter for CHD, we immediately thought we would never get our point across. Since Little Derrick has come into our world of "LOTS OF BOYS" (3 other grandsons), it has truly been the most difficult thing in the world to experience. It's hard enough to raise your own children but when your grandchildren come along it rocks your whole world.
When Jim & I (Derrick's grandparents) were told about Derrick's condition mid-way in the pregnancy, it upset us beyond words. All we have ever experienced was healthy children…not this! Our hearts sank for Justin & Shannon. They were robbed of all the fun you have in a pregnancy but they seemed to get through it. The day Little Derrick was born was such an awesome day. We got to see him and touch his little foot some time after birth but then he was rushed away. We left the hospital that night thinking they had made a terrible mistake-this child was beautiful - he didn't appear to have any problems. We did not want to admit it but it was true. Surgery was imminent and scheduled only eight days after birth. We all agonized the night before because we knew Derrick was going to have open heart surgery. Our feelings were up and down not only for us but especially for Justin and Shannon. Reality began to set in - their child is a heart baby with CHD and other words I still can't pronounce.
We need to get busy and work to get research and $$$$'s to help children like Derrick. They need to have hope and so do their parents. Seeing babies go through all of this is hard enough but we need research so it can save lives, extend lives and offer a future for all of these children. It would be money well spent - just imagine if it were your baby or child, grandson or granddaughter. WE KNOW!!!!!
Debby Carter,Grandmother to Derrick